Am I Being Ghosted? Quiz

Even though technology has made being connected much easier, it’s not had the same effect on dating. The current dating scene is full of insecurity and anxiety, and dating has become more of a performance. Amidst this charade, when double texting makes you “desperate” and it’s common to not get a text back for days on end – how do you know if you’re being ghosted or if the other person is just busy? While its hard to say for sure, this quiz will give you a pretty good clue. A word of advice though? If someone has you constantly questioning whether you’re being ghosted, best to not invest more energy there.

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Questions

1. How often does the person respond to your messages?

Almost immediately Within a few hours After a day or more Rarely, if ever

2. When you call, how often do they answer?  

Almost always Sometimes Rarely Never

3. How frequently do you two make plans to see each other?

Regularly Occasionally Rarely Never

4. Do they cancel plans at the last minute?

Never Rarely Sometimes Often

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5. How often do you receive updates about their life?

Regularly Occasionally Rarely Never

6. When they do respond, how engaged are they in the conversation?

Very engaged Moderately engaged Slightly engaged Barely engaged

7. Do they initiate contact with you?

Frequently Occasionally Rarely Never

8. How do they react when you ask them about their lack of communication?

They apologize and explain They give a vague response They seem annoyed They ignore the question

9. Have they stopped following you on social media or interacting with your posts?

No, they interact regularly They interact less than before They rarely interact They don’t interact at all

10. Do you feel like you’re the only one making an effort to maintain the relationship?

No, it’s mutual Sometimes Often Always

11. When you try to make future plans, how do they respond?

Enthusiastically Indifferently Hesitantly They avoid the topic